Hey Amazon
Let’s have a heart-to-heart about something that might be the game-changer you’ve been missing: clear communication.
In your journey of personal evolution and identity rediscovery, knowing who you are is only half of the equation. The other half? Knowing how to express who you are clearly, confidently, and consistently.
As a woman on the rise, whether you’re building your career, leading a team, starting a business, or simply trying to make meaningful connections; the way you speak, write, show up, and share matters deeply.
Why? Because your communication is your currency. It communicates not just your thoughts, but your worth, values, and brilliance.
Clear communication isn’t about talking more; It’s about saying what matters, in ways that make sense, touch hearts, and get results.
1.It begins with a mindset shift:
You’re not just talking. You’re representing your competence, character, and core values in every interaction. Whether you’re on a Zoom call with your team, chatting with a client, speaking on stage, or talking to a friend; people are forming perceptions. And guess what? Those perceptions are shaping how they treat you, trust you, and refer you.
2. Have a Structure or Framework:
To make your communication simple and powerful. Engage others with empathy and openness. Present your thoughts and ideas with clarity and relevance. Use relatable stories, examples, or analogies as illustrations to emphasize your points. Guide and make your conversation lead somewhere with a call to action!
❌ “I kinda do coaching and stuff… mostly for women. It’s like personal development or something.”
✅ “I help young women who have been through shame, hurt and pain rediscover their identity and purpose through coaching, so they can lead powerful lives with clarity and confidence.”
The first version is fuzzy, forgettable, and unsure.
The second? Bold, clear, and valuable.
Here are some practical tips for you to communicate clearly:
- Brief: She says what she means in as few words as needed. This helps articulate your thought helps your listener comprehend quickly.
- Tailored message: She tailors her message to her audience. What and how you speak to your friends is different from that of your client or a sponsor.
- Empathetic: She considers how the message lands on the listener. Keep in perspective how the listener should feel and get your intentions.
- Assertive: She speaks with conviction, not arrogance. Speak with confidence, some of things you say matter from how you it sounds to your listeners.
- Storytelling: She shares real, relatable experiences to connect. Using stories keep your listeners engaged and gives them context to information received.
- Valuable: She contributes values, provides solution not chaos. Your solutions make you memorable and showcases your worth.
You cannot build the life you deserve while mumbling through your value.
Sis, you need to learn how to say who you are, what you do, and why it matters: not only for others, but for YOU. Your own ears need to hear you say it with audacity and joy.
How you speak matters in your
- Interviews – sell your skill, don’t beg for the job.
- Team meetings – speak with confidence, not disclaimers.
- Emails & pitches – be concise and clear, not flowery and confusing.
- Relationships – state what you need and expect respectfully.
3. Set Expectations Early and Often
Clarity reduces conflict.
One of the biggest gifts you can give to your friends, family, clients, or colleagues is to be upfront about your expectations.
“I’d love if we could be more intentional about staying in touch. Can we plan monthly check-ins?”
“Here’s how I work, what I deliver, and how feedback is handled.”
“For this project to succeed, we need weekly updates and clear roles.”
Clarity builds trust, Confusion breeds tension; Choose wisely!
4. The Power of Community
We live in a world that celebrates “I got it on my own” but it’s a lie.
No man or woman is self-made; you need community, and your community needs YOU to show up clearly.
When you communicate well: your friends know how to support you; your family understands your boundaries, clients respect your expertise and your boss or team values your contribution. When all these areas align, your confidence skyrockets.
5. Build a Simple Communication System
Just like you organize your to-do lists, wardrobe, calendar, or finances organize your thoughts for communication!
- Keep a digital or hand note of how you introduce yourself.
- Create templates for emails or messages you send often.
- Practice voice notes or video scripts before sharing.
- Schedule feedback check-ins with people in your circle.
- Dress and show up cohesively, your appearance communicates too.
Remember: neatness, order, and clarity in how you present yourself draws others to you.
It’s time to stop shrinking or fumbling your brilliance. Speak well of yourself and others; Present yourself with pride; Share your ideas boldly and Don’t whisper your worth; announce it with grace.
- Instead of “I hope I’m making sense,” say, “Let me know if you need clarity.”
- Instead of “I just think…,” say, “Here’s what I propose.”
- Instead of “Sorry to bother you,” say, “Do you have a moment for a quick update?”
Your words are powerful! They either build your future or block it.
Clear communication is not about being perfect. It’s about being intentional.
Say what you mean. Know what you want. Speak to inspire, not impress.
When you’re clear, confident and consistent… you become unforgettable.
I am rooting for you
Sefe Osinoiki
Identity Discovery Coach